what is love??

    Love is a very mysterious emotion that just makes us feel happy and wanted. Heard about same sex marriage being ok everywhere in the U.S.

   For me, I'm ok with it, because it doesn't matter what religion, race, or whatever.... It's in the heart is what counts.

   Love is an emotion that never dies, it never will go away, but it will feel pain when it is hurt when someone breaks somebody's heart.



   Some people differently, saying that love should be between a man and a woman. That is their opinion and some people will agree with that. For me, it's what's in the heart that counts. A lot of people think love is nothing until they feel it themselves, and when it's gone, they feel heartbroken as if they had their heart stepped on by the one who said that they are no longer in love with them.


       For me, I think you feel loved from the day you are born till the day you die, everyone has love in their heart. Some people don't show it, why? I don't it, but it's there and they just feel hurt and can't give love.



   What do I think is love. Love is giving someone a helping hand, or thanking them for a home cooked meal, being there for someone when they needed most. Saying 'I Do' no matter who you are. Love conquers all. That's what I think deep down. Love your fellow man and know that love will be there for you no matter what goes on.

     That's what I think Love is to me. I have a family that loves me, a boyfriend who loves me and the whole world of people who care about me. Well not a whole world, but a lot of people that care about me. Love will be there to shield the hate and with everything going on now in the world, Love will always be there. Ciao Bloggers! I love u all

Is are you afraid of the dark really that scary?

    When I was young, I use to watch this program on Nickelodeon called SNICK and there was this was this one show called "Are you afraid of the dark" It was like a kid friendly version of "Tales of the crypt." Only I've looked at it reticently and I've noticed...
   It's not scary.


    Is anything I've seen when I was young that scary. They had stories that involves one person being a goody two shoes and another being a jackass. And for some reason there is always a story of a ghost or a vampire or aliens and it seemed to have the same theme.

   The jackass person gets captured and the goody two shoes has to save them. I don't get it. Sometimes some episodes are pretty good and there were actually celebrities like Ryan Gosling and Bobcat Godwait and even Tia and Tamara Moway stared in some episodes.

  Seemed pretty cool to have some guest stars on the show but still it just didn't seem scary to me. There are about three episodes I want to talk about that I think did creep me out the most when I was a kid.

 

 



   One was an early episode called
"The tale of the lonely ghost"
     Where two girls go into a haunted house, well one does because the other one is a bitch of a cousin and wants her cousin not be a sissy and tells a tale about a girl that died in the house during a war because she wasn't much of a talker and kids would make fun of her for not talking. She soon to be revealed to be related to the nanny who visited the cousin next door. She goes in the mirror and are both together again. I found it a little creepy when I was young, but seeing it now it's somewhat sad.

   The second one is called
"The tale of the closet keepers"
     A girl, who is deaf, is kidnapped by some creepy people who keep kids prisoner in an alien zoo and trap them with noise. She is joined by her friend and they do the best they can to free everyone, but it's up to her to save them. Why this creped me out when I was young. The guy who was keeping them, they kept showing his teeth, I didn't like that. He also had a creepy look on his face and when they try to save them, they have to use noise to escape one way or another, it's an ok episode, he's just creepy.

   The last one I want to talk about it
"The tale of locker 22"
    A new girl is being picked on at school and gets a crappy locker. She learns about who had the locker before. Her name was Candy Warren and she died tragically in an explosion. She gets a bead necklace and jumps back in time. Everyone thinks she's Candy and she had to face the same tragic death the real Candy  experienced long ago. What creped me out a little when I was young is the ending. Sometimes you never know what will happen when you change the past because when they she and a friend went back in the future, after saving her, they meet the new assistant principal 'Candy Warren'. Spooky.

     Sometimes I think of story ideas from those shows. They do help. I'm in the scary and the creepy and the unbelievable and sometimes looking back at nostalgia never hurts once in a while, but 'Are you afraid of the dark' was like jumping back into the past. It ended in the 2000's and I do miss it a little but thanks to YouTube, I can see some old episodes once more. Ciao Bloggers!

Do you ever feel like in someone else's shoes

   Ever heard of the old saying "you don't know how you feel about someone until you have been in they're shoes?"

  It's like saying you want to know someone very well, but you have to know them by living their life.

   Sometimes, I always wonder what a person is like just by staring at them and what their life is like by what they do. Just by working as a cashier in a grocery store, I know somewhat about their life just by what they purchase food wise and other.
    When they buy something and I see it, it is as if some of their life is being shown on the conveyor belt.
   
     And when you find out something about a person, it's another step closer of knowing who they are and what they do in their life, and also knowing what they do for a living, but sometimes it's best to keep some things a secret,  and not reveal too much.


   But when you person deep down, by their feelings and who they are, you connect with them more. I connect with many people by giving them hope and sometimes, can predict the future. Sometimes, it amazes them, and shocks them as well.
It's called empathy and not many people have it, you have to somewhat earn it, and for me having to learn from mistakes and having the courage to not be shy anymore.

   Sometimes you to know a lot about the person to be in their shoes, and for me just knowing about one person, makes me feel like I know them already that the shoes would never matter to me. That they are who are, and they just are perfect the way they are. Till then, just learn that everyone is different and we all have feelings. Ciao Blogger!

when is the "15 minutes of fame" really 15 minutes of fame?

   Why am I blogging about this?


Well we have all heard about Bruce Jenner's sex change and the Kardashians and so much happening in the entertainment world it is now sickening.

   I just don't wanna hear about it anymore.
       I feel like they are stretching out their "15 minutes of fame" to more than about a year.



I don't wanna deal with Kanye West's bull crap on how he's the greatest rapper on Earth and is making others feel as if they are nothing.
   I think he is nothing more than TRASH!


And looking at millionaires and their huge homes, I just wonder, what are they doing for a living, and are they giving any to charity?
   If I had that kind of money, believe me, I would donating it to charity than spending it making my house look like a rich celebrity house for my 15 minutes of fame. When do you know, that it is dying down? Well remember the ice bucket challenge for a CHARITY? No one is doing it anymore.

   It was so popular and now, it's just, nothing. No one even wants to deal with fads these days as much as they were a popular thing in the late 90's early 2000's, now it's just no longer there. Everyone is on their Facebook accounts trying to take a picture of themselves and post it, trying to get a lot of likes.

   Ken Jennings, the guy who was on Jeopardy of almost 3 months, had his 15 minutes of fame and people were just about getting sick and tired of him. Now, he's just not around much anymore (but at least he is giving some of his money to charity)

   If I was rich and famous, I would give my money to charity. Like "stroke survivor awareness" "animal shelters" and "ovarian cancer research" I really miss my aunt and I love her.

       We all have our 15 minutes of fame, but fame does come with a price. That's what I say.
I think it's best to know when we tire of something, and know it is time to ignore it, like that "Where's the Beef" commercial or the "Microsoft" commercial from 1984 where the woman threw the hammer at the big screen ala 1984.

   Even though it's no longer there, we will always remember it. 15 minutes of fame or not, it will always be there and will never die. Just like the Kardashians, they will soon disappear from the Media attention and will always be in our memory. Ciao Bloggers.

Get out the grill....

  It's that time of month now....


School is about to end, and the summer is going to be upon us.

   And so will the grills. Mostly I'm not big on grilling in the backyard, but it's somewhat a tradition in households from Memorial day to Labor day to be outside in the sun and grill burgers, hotdogs and even chicken.

   Some people are even grilling corn and vegetables in the summer, but what is it with the secrets of summer and a barbecue that make it one and one? Is it the aroma of the summer grass and the charcoals on the grill being lit as we enjoy one another's company and know that summer comes once every couple of weeks and then poof....
   gone.



For some reason, it seems the magic of summer is within the backyard barbecues that we have, and the fourth of july and memorial day barbecue are one of the most popular days to put the hamburger and the hot dog on the grill.

   Fourth of July is also the biggest day of eating hot dogs. In Nathans in Coney Island, New York, there is a hot dog eating contest that goes on every Fourth of July. Where people go to goruge out on Hot Dogs until their stomachs explode. And one person walks out with the mustard colored belt.

        Summer is here of course and when I smell a grilled hot dog and corn on the cob is there and people are enjoying each other's company, I know summer is here.
  We grill mostly in the summer and sometimes other seasons, we don't use charcoal we use propane, since propane heats quicker and is a more popular way to grill your burgers weather it's a meat burger or a veggie burger. I have tried a veggie burger and it's ok, I have even tried a turkey dog, but it's not as good as I thought it would be.


  Enjoy having your grill turned on constantly all summer and enjoy what is left of it, because we had to hibernate it all winter. Till then, enjoy the rest of Spring. Ciao Bloggers. Grill away